Harm can be physical, emotional, sexual or neglect — including online harm. You don't need to be certain something is wrong to act; a genuine concern is enough.
Signs worth noticing in a child
- Unexplained injuries, fearfulness around a particular adult, or sudden changes in behaviour, mood or attendance.
- Language or knowledge that seems advanced for a child's age, or a child who seems constantly hungry, unwashed or unsupervised.
- A child hinting at something without saying it directly — take hints seriously, don't dismiss them.
Grooming behaviour to watch for — in anyone
- Consistently seeking one-on-one time or private contact with the same child.
- Excessive gifts, favouritism, or special treatment that singles a child out.
- Gradually testing or normalising boundary violations — physical contact, secrecy, "just between us" language.
- Trying to isolate a child from peers, family or other supervising adults.
These patterns matter for your own conduct too — Module 4 covers how to stay clearly on the right side of every one of them.